In a snack bar I encountered a old woman. She is very talkative, so the bar¡¯s owner, she and me started to chat. Of course she was leading role of the talk. She said, she was 63 years old. I was a little surprise. Before, I thought she is over forty. She has a son, 28 years old. Her husband is in Suzhou, she is in Nanjing. From young, they always separated in two cities. She said she enjoyed the kind of life. Their living habits are very different, so she doesn¡¯t like with her husband and his family. Her son is very good. When she was ill, her son looked after her. Her son is still single, etc. She talked a lot. The owner of the snack bar said she should take care of her husband as a wife. I said nothing. I didn¡¯t want to disagree with her. I knew what she said was not the truth. But I didn¡¯t want to reveal it, Because I like the old woman. I appreciate her innocent, her activity, her young mind. I think she has no choice. Maybe sometime she was lonely, but she still looks for happy for herself. She doesn¡¯t like her husband¡¯s family. She likes freedom, she can¡¯t tolerant with some people, some stiff customs. But she can¡¯t say so, because someone will despise her. Don¡¯t like most women, they must be tolerant though they have many unhappy things in life. Tolerances are very hard, but honey comes after hardship. She doesn¡¯t like tolerance, so she is free, she is also lonely, no pleasure of family life. This way is good, also bad. But I can¡¯t choose as her. I love my husband, I choose live with him, I care for him. Future we will have our baby. Although we quarrel sometime, we brawled once. But we know we love each other. Life is a competition between a great gap and a great love.
Saturday, February 27, 2010
Friday, February 26, 2010
A Print Money Machine By Birth
If your boyfriend gives you a gift just as follows,then you can call him a print money machine by birth rather than a great artist. Another one.
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Yesterday once more.
Nowdays people are more likely to use a Gel Ink Pen not a pen. Beacause the new one is more convinent than the old one. After it is used up, you just throw it away and change a new one. That is just a example to find people are more impulsive and lazy than ever before.We have sanitary cups ,disposable chopsticks, plastic bags, so many one-off things. That's a big reason why our envioment so bad .Today, I bought ink and found my old pen which have accompanied with me for 8 years. Using the pen, I remember the old days when my mom taught me how to spell abc. What a moving scene to cherish!Maybe I am old fashioned, some people said I look like youth in the May Fourth Movment. But I say, is that bad?
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Wish another season prosperious~
Snow is flying,dancing,drifting in the air,ending the short season of fall promptly ...However,I am fasinated by the splendid view of snowflake,and feels sth peaceful and marvelous deep down in my heart the whole day. Thus, I began praying,meditating,preparing for another season.As the saying goes,if winter comes,can spring be far away? So I sincerely hope I can fulfill myself in this particular season. Hope you too!~
Monday, February 22, 2010
who is your role model?
Children need a role model , so it is for adults. What is a role model ? The people who have the qualities you can have . My role model is Bi Shu Min ,a famous writer. She was a doctor in the army ever. Now she is also a psychological consultant. I like reading her books very much. I more like her essay than his novels, and her feeling is natural . She is conscientious in her life. Whatever she is, a wife, a mother, a doctor, a writer , she is successful. But she is always modest.
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Whats your opinio on the bubble of Shanghai's real estate?
Recently I heard that the RMB may devalue sharply and the bubble of Shanghai's real estate may be pierced after the World Expo.Is it ture?May put aside of this question away and I tell you a story. Tulips were introduced into Holland before the 17th century but it did not take long for the flowers to gain popularity among the upper classes.Flower of such beauty and rarity soon became symbols of power and prestige and the rich tried to lay their hands on some to display in their gardens. By 1634, the whole country was so fascinated by tulips that all other activities almost came to a stop.People were trading in tulips and even buying and selling unsprouted flowers.It was similar to the futures market today,where traders are buying and selling crude oil or cotton which they will never see.As the tulip trades increased,regular markets were set up on the Stock Exchange of Amsterdam and other towns.That happened in the year 1636 when the craze was reaching its peak. The bubble finally burst in 1637.For some unknown reasons maybe a group of people suddenly realized the madness tulips failed to command and usual inflated prices in a gathering.Word spread and the market crashed.As in all asset bubbles,it took time to propel prices to such extraordinary levels,but it only took a single pierce to burst the bubble.When confidence destroyed,it could not be recovered and prices kept falling until they were one-tenth of those set during the peak.Soon the nobles became poor and the rich became paupers.Cries of distress resounded everywhere in Holland. Why do I bring up this story that happend centuries ago?It is because greed is a part of human nature and short memory is an investor trait,we just never seem to learn from past mistakes.Then you try to think about the event of Shanghai Disney,the price of real estate related Shanghai Disney has multiplied several times.Perhaps it is another "tulip craze".
Saturday, February 20, 2010
WHAT I DO
TODAY, IT TAKES ME HUGE AFFECT TO SCAN THE SHIPPING BUSINESS CORRESPONDENCE, ALL THE THINGS ARE ABOUT YOUR SHIPPING KNOWLEDGE AND THEN IMPRESS THEM WELL IN TO ENGLISH, THE THINGS INCLUDE FROM MAKE SOME APPLICATIONS TO DESCRIBE THE STATE OF PERSONAL INJURY AND DEATH, FROM CARGO DAMAGE TO SHIPPING DOCUMENTS, INVOLVE ALL RESPECTS OF THE SHIPPING LAW AND SPECIAL ITEMS SEEM MUCH HARDER THEN THE FOREIGN TRADE E-MAILS, I USE TO LEARN THIS BOOK SKIMMLY, AND IN THE END I FOUND I SEEMLY MASTER 30 PERCENT OF THEM, ALL THE LETTERS MUST BE WRITTEN IN CAPITAL LETTERS, SOME OF THEM USE SOME AB. EVEN IF YOU KNOW ENGLISH WELL, YOU CAN NOT TELL IN DETAILS ABOUT OF PAPER FULL OF SPECIAL AB. ITEMS
Thursday, February 18, 2010
What can I do for the situation?
Today ,I have read one diary from my high school classmate.She said when she stand on the top of the worldwide mall in Shanghai ,looking at the HuangPu river ,she feel sad.Because her BF fly to Sydney to start his master's degree. And she is prepare for the GRE test.If she has past ,her BF's father will send her to Sydney.Now his father is an acadmician in Chinese Academy of Science.Her life is so far to me .But when we are in high school ,we study together.Now it is the difference.My dream is so tiny .I just want when I graduate from college ,I will be a marster student.And when I have a master degree ,I can find a right job .Finally ,I want to have a warm family with my BF.Both our close relatives are health and happy.
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
wavy hair
it takes me almost a day to deal with the hair at last it becomes wavy hair. this is the first time i try wavy hair . but there are some troubles in the process. and though with new image , i still calm and don't feel happy at all. the reason clear up the hair is the wedding celebration which i have to attend tomorrow. oh , forger it ! after all i have made it! may be the style is not bad!
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
warm heart
tonight i saw something about yuminhong¡¯experience .yuminhong ,the first person who rise up new oriental english school .i am moved by it .and i have a more clear sight about my future .i want to like him in the future and i know that's what i want .tears drop down through my face ,it's a sign of the past and a new life .i will never give up my dream .tonight i don't want to sleep ,i can't sleep for several unknow reasons in fact .though i don't know the reason,i have a good time then for i enjoy the listenning . all the persons here are all english fun ,so let's come on together on our english as well as our future . may we meet some places sometime
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Unusual Weather
It is very cold today, and the temprature may drops below zerocentidegree. The winter is really comes. When I got the office, took off my raincoat, I was surprised that there was a piece of ice on it. Maybe it was too cold, so that the rain built into the ice block after it dropped on my raincoat. A few minutes ago, there were so many crystal ice dropping down outside, and they beat the window. We can heard the sound of "pi-pi-pa-pa".(How to say it exactly? Dear friends, please help me.) It was a little unnormal. But now we can see the beautiful snowflake flying in the air. That is great! I think it will last for a longer time than last time.
Saturday, February 13, 2010
trans and resonance
How far is your life to the bull¡¯s eye?If miss it, you are convicting a sin.A sin means that you not live a life that truly belong to you, you are not You should be.To be the real oneself defines that it is a repetitive process day by day, and need to request self everyday that, is it a life I want really? And controversially, the trouble of life is also because it is made by many days one by one, the happy and meaningful life is made by each separate happy day.I notice those wise people are who know clearly how a happy day likes. One old man used to discuss with me in the end of a day, and he described a feeling of Tired while happy. He compared that with the feeling Tired and suffering. He said the feeling, Tired and happy is gained after you focus your life on some really important thing.Sometimes, we seems get some victory, while our inner heart sensed that, no, this is not what I really want, then this feeling is tried and suffering. So the first step to get to know yourself is to seek a day that is tired and happy.There is a simple way to work on it, to have self¡ªreflection. After some tired and happy day, we should try to look for the essences that bring us the satisfaction in that day. And after some tired and suffering day, we also need to have self¡ªreflection, and to find out what make us feel so terrible.Only when you follow your true will, and keep correspondence with yourself, you will feel truly happy.The bitterest tears come from tomb, for those words not been expressed and affairs not been undertaken.
Friday, February 12, 2010
Tired for english
I am a little tired after a half day of meeting.I felt depressed.Once again,english attacked my confidence.The whole guys in the meeting was speaking english.I am crazy that most of what they spoken I can not understand.They are speaking so fluent and quick.I absolutely can not catch up their speed.I am so...unhappy.Why learning a foreign language is so hard?Taking so much time but little progress.When you put it down only for one or two days.You will found the progress disappeared.Then working hard again to remember what you used to learnt some days ago.Most of us wish to take a systemic learning for english everyday.But to me,it is impossible.Because we have many other things to spend time.Ok.After complained in this blog,I need to continue my work and my english learning.5555~
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Think a minute!
Think a minute Have you ever thought to youself:"I know what i should have done, but i didn't do it !" How many times have you felt that way? It is a struggle we all fight every day! The constant battle between what we know we should do and what we actually do. Between our conscience and we really live. Why can't we simply do what we know we should? It is even what we really want to do in our heart. our problerm? we have a power shortage in our life-----a shortage of wil power. we are like this couple whom i know. The husband and wife both are professional marriage counselors, but they have now divorced each other! they counseled hundreds of other married couples ,yet they themselves can't work out their own marriage problerms.They know all there is to know about a good marriage relationship , but they can't do it themselves and follow their own advice.
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
The Youth
When people are young, they yearn for freedom in the same way that farmers wish that their fields yield a good crop of potatoes. But, how long could the young people enjoy themselves? Recently, some of mine middle-aged students feel youth is slipping away after thirty, admitting that they are not as free as they once were. One of them told me when he was in high school, he felt the class was so boring that he always stretched, yawned and fell asleep during the class with the thought that time is ample. But now he wouldn't do that any more, for he felt that time was too limited to doze off and that time seemed yelling at him. After knowing his feeling, I realized with sentiment not only that youth was short, but that I ought to cherish it. At least, I should make sure when I sit in the back yard one day, if I have one, to enjoy the senior life, I won't regret.
Monday, February 8, 2010
the winter has coming
The winter has coming...Compared with Summer, I like summer much more than winter. I often can not bear the chillness ,even cold, it makes me like hibernator, do not want to do anything all the time. Although I know the changeable seasons makes our world much more beautiful and charming, let me pray the winter become shorter. Maybe the environment polution will help me, but that is not what I excepted.My little honey can not adapt this kind of changeable climate, get a bad cough. Luckily, she is getting better and better.I think most of people do not like the rain in the winter,but it has been raining twao days, so terrible.Of course, there is one saying" the winter has coming, the spring also will come not soon." Right or wrong?
Saturday, February 6, 2010
the terrible rain
Many people will think of spring when it comes to the rain, but it is normal that it always rains in any season in Shanghai. Though I have lived in Shanghai for more than 10 years, I still can't accommodate myself to the climate of Shanghai. It has been raining these two days. On the way home yesterday, I rode my electric bicycle carefully with my raincoat, but I found my sleeves and trousers fully wet. It was so terrible! How I wish a sunny day come back soon!
Friday, February 5, 2010
the perseverance
everybody knows the importance of the perseverance. but sometimes , i can not help thinking what the perseverance is. just like the ads of the website that if u can keep up writing a log or the stuff like diary things each in a week for one year, ur english level should go to a gorgeous level.i do not know whether i have such cool perseverance, each a week,cool, like sex stuffs.so big snow outside the window,f**k adding the the snail's crawling speed of the internet.why i do not like snow. the big snow means a big harvest to the farmers,but it also means a big trouble to modern cities ,specially in beijing, the famous traffic jam, turgid clothes hiding hot girl's alluring stature.
Thursday, February 4, 2010
The last time that I cried for you
Today he sent me message to tell me that he's gonna to marry someone. It's been 2 months and 17 days since we broke up. He was my first love. Although I regretted having such an ex, I still admit that I loved him. They say you will always remember your first love. I was so afraid that I lost him, because I am afraid that no one would love me again. But suddently tonight I felt that it's time to let it go. 'cause I realized that he was just a passer-by of my life, so did I to him. Therefore, this is indeed my last time that I cried for you. Shayangnala...
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
The First Snowing in Xi¡¯An
Today I saw a miracle happened here. There was a snowing. What a surprise for me! During the time I was living there, I have never seeing snow. But today everywhere I can see those snowing sights though they began to melt. It was snowing the night of yesterday when we were sleeping. Huh, such a fantastic moment! Whole campus looks like wear a white coat, it¡¯s amazing. Nevertheless, the weather became colder than it was. Indeed I hate cold weather. After having attended the class I felt comfortable because of the sunshine. At the noon, sun is shining there. Hey, hey, what¡¯s up with the universe? Huh¡ it¡¯ll cause those snows melted, nevertheless it¡¯ll make me warm. Abruptly, the alarm came into my mind which it¡¯ll be a hint of effect of Global Warming. Because, during the past days, the weather was not extraordinary like on today. Anyway, I hope everything will be good with our earth.
Monday, February 1, 2010
The first day come here~
I am a new member in here, nice to see you everybody!From now on, I will write diary of my life in English in here. I am so happy join this English Blog Website. I joined an English course for one year in UE English School, and it was over in the end of last month; but my English still very poor, so I need to do more practice by myself now. I would continue to learn; if possible please tell me if you see mistake I made in my diary, I will be very grateful to you, friend. I think one day in the future, my English could be very good. Come on!